Relationships & Character Chinese Idioms

Learn Chinese idioms about interpersonal relationships, social bonds, moral character, and behavioral patterns. These sayings illuminate human nature and the dynamics of human connections.

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一模一样

yī mú yī yàng

One mold one appearance

Exactly identical

Originating in Ming Dynasty craftsmen's guilds, this idiom literally means one (一) mold (模) produces one (一) appearance (样). It derives from the ancie...

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以心换心

yǐ xīn huàn xīn

Exchange heart for heart

Treat others as yourself

This idiom emerged during the Han Dynasty, expressing the profound concept of exchanging (换) one heart (心) for another (以). It first appeared in diplo...

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海纳百川

hǎi nà bǎi chuān

Sea accepts hundred rivers

Accept all with open mind

This idiom describes how the sea (海) accepts (纳) a hundred (百) rivers (川), celebrating inclusivity and breadth of mind. It first gained prominence dur...

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以和为贵

yǐ hé wéi guì

Value harmony as precious

Value harmony above all

This idiom, promoting harmony (和) as precious (贵), traces back to the Zhou Dynasty classic 'Guoyu,' reflecting early Chinese diplomatic philosophy. Th...

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同舟共济

tóng zhōu gòng jì

Cross river in same boat

Face challenges together

This idiom shares deep connections with China's river-centric civilization, where crossing (济) together (共) in the same boat (同舟) was often a matter o...

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风雨同舟

fēng yǔ tóng zhōu

Share boat in wind and rain

Share hardships together

Closely related to '同舟共济' but with added emotional depth, this idiom evokes sharing a boat (同舟) amid wind (风) and rain (雨). It first appeared in Song ...

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春风化雨

chūn fēng huà yǔ

Spring wind becomes rain

Gentle, nurturing influence

This poetic metaphor traces back to the Han Dynasty's educational philosophy, where ideal teaching was compared to spring winds (春风) transforming into...

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狐假虎威

hú jiǎ hǔ wēi

Fox uses tiger's power

Borrow authority to intimidate

This idiom emerged from a Warring States period fable where a fox (狐) borrowed (假) the authority (威) of a tiger (虎) to intimidate other animals. The s...

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守望相助

shǒu wàng xiāng zhù

Watch and help each other

Help and support each other

Originating from ancient Chinese village organization principles, this phrase describes communities watching (守望) and helping (相助) each other. Histori...

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爱屋及乌

ài wū jí wū

Love house and its crow

Love extends to all connections

This tender expression describes how love (爱) for a house (屋) extends (及) even to the crow (乌) perched on its roof. Dating back to the Warring States ...

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一言九鼎

yī yán jiǔ dǐng

Words heavy as nine cauldrons

Words carry great weight

During the Zhou Dynasty, nine sacred bronze cauldrons (鼎) symbolized imperial authority. This idiom equates a single (一) word (言) with the weight of t...

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守口如瓶

shǒu kǒu rú píng

Guard mouth like bottle

Keep secrets well

Comparing one's mouth to a sealed bottle (瓶), this idiom emerged during the Tang Dynasty when court intrigue made discretion essential for survival. T...

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众志成城

zhòng zhì chéng chéng

Many wills make wall

Unity creates strength

This architectural metaphor shows how many wills (众志) can form an impenetrable wall (城), drawing from ancient Chinese defensive architecture. It gaine...

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守正不阿

shǒu zhèng bù ē

Keep right no flattery

Keep integrity without compromise

Emerging from Han Dynasty political discourse, this phrase combines maintaining righteousness (守正) with refusing to flatter or compromise principles (...

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雪中送炭

xuě zhōng sòng tàn

Send coal in snow

Help in time of need

Sending (送) coal (炭) in snow (雪) weather captured the essence of timely assistance during critical moments. This Song Dynasty idiom arose from stories...

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倾盖如故

qīng gài rú gù

Tilt hat like old friends

Instant friendship

Dating to the Spring and Autumn period, this elegant idiom describes the instant rapport between kindred spirits, comparing it to tilting (倾) carriage...

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完璧归赵

wán bì guī zhào

Return jade to Zhao complete

Return something perfect

This idiom stems from the Warring States period when Lin Xiangru, a diplomat of Zhao state, was tasked with protecting a precious jade disk (璧) that K...

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饮水思源

yǐn shuǐ sī yuán

Drink water think source

Remember your roots

This reflection on gratitude emerged during the Tang Dynasty, using the everyday act of drinking (饮) water (水) to remind one to think (思) of its sourc...

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一诺千金

yī nuò qiān jīn

One promise thousand gold

Keep promises faithfully

Emerging from the Spring and Autumn period, this idiom equates one (一) promise (诺) with a thousand in gold (千金). It gained prominence through the stor...

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言不由衷

yán bù yóu zhōng

Words not from heart

Speak without meaning it

First appearing in Han Dynasty court records, this idiom describes words (言) not originating (不由) from within one's heart (衷). It gained particular si...

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口是心非

kǒu shì xīn fēi

Mouth yes heart no

Words differ from thoughts

Originating in Tang Dynasty Buddhist texts discussing the alignment of speech and thought, this idiom describes when the mouth (口) says yes (是) but th...

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敬业乐群

jìng yè lè qún

Respect work enjoy community

Balance excellence with social harmony

This balanced approach advocates respecting (敬) one's profession (业) while enjoying (乐) community (群), first appearing in Confucian educational texts ...

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坐怀不乱

zuò huái bù luàn

Sit in lap not disorderly

Maintain perfect integrity despite temptation

This idiom refers to maintaining propriety (不乱) even when a woman sits (坐) in one's lap (怀), originating from a story about Confucian scholar Liuxia H...

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高山流水

gāo shān liú shuǐ

High mountain flowing water

Perfect artistic understanding between friends

This aesthetic idiom pairs lofty (高) mountains (山) with flowing (流) water (水), originating from a famous friendship between Zhong Ziqi and musician Bo...

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不卑不亢

bù bēi bù kàng

Neither humble nor proud

Maintain perfect dignified composure

This balanced idiom advocates being neither (不) servile (卑) nor (不) arrogant (亢), originating from Confucian texts of the Warring States period. It fi...

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难兄难弟

nán xiōng nán dì

Difficult elder and younger brothers

Companions united through shared hardship

This related idiom describes troubled (难) elder brother (兄) and troubled (难) younger brother (弟), originating from Qing Dynasty vernacular literature....

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顶礼膜拜

dǐng lǐ mó bài

Highest reverence and worship

Extreme adoration or worship

This reverential idiom combines the highest form of respect (顶礼) with devout worship (膜拜), originating from Buddhist ritual practices during the Easte...

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过河拆桥

guò hé chāi qiáo

Cross river, dismantle bridge

Abandoning those who helped you

This ungrateful idiom describes crossing (过) a river (河) and then dismantling (拆) the bridge (桥), originating from Tang Dynasty political commentary. ...

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虚张声势

xū zhāng shēng shì

Empty show of strength

Bluffing with fake display

This deceptive idiom describes creating false (虚) displays (张) of power (势) through noise (声), originating from Warring States period military strateg...

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青梅竹马

qīng méi zhú mǎ

Green plums and bamboo horses

Childhood sweethearts or friends

This nostalgic idiom pairs green plums (青梅) with bamboo horses (竹马), originating from Tang Dynasty poet Li Bai's verse about childhood playmates. It d...

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狐狸尾巴

hú li wěi ba

Fox's tail

True nature eventually revealed

This revealing idiom references a fox's (狐狸) tail (尾巴) as something hidden that eventually shows itself, originating from Tang Dynasty folklore where ...

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指桑骂槐

zhǐ sāng mà huái

Point mulberry, curse locust tree

Indirect criticism of real target

This indirect idiom describes pointing at (指) mulberry trees (桑) while cursing (骂) locust trees (槐), originating from the Spring and Autumn period. It...

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叶公好龙

yè gōng hào lóng

Lord Ye loves dragons

Professed love hiding actual fear

This ironic tale tells of Lord Ye (叶公) who professed to love (好) dragons (龙) but fled in terror when faced with a real one. During the Six Dynasties p...

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冰清玉洁

bīng qīng yù jié

Ice clear jade pure

Impeccable moral character and integrity

This purity idiom pairs the clarity of ice (冰清) with the unsullied nature of jade (玉洁), originating from Han Dynasty descriptions of exemplary officia...

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总而言之

zǒng ér yán zhī

Altogether and speaking it

To sum up everything discussed

This formal idiom combines totality (总) with expression (言之) through a linking particle (而), emerging directly from Han Dynasty scholarly writing rath...

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斩钉截铁

zhǎn dīng jié tiě

Chop nail cut iron

Decisively and firmly without hesitation

Born in the workshops of Tang Dynasty metalworkers, this phrase captures the clean, decisive action of chopping nails (斩钉) and cutting iron (截铁). The ...

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朝秦暮楚

zhāo qín mù chǔ

Morning Qin evening Chu

Constantly shifting loyalty for personal gain

During the turbulent Warring States period, this phrase emerged to describe officials who served Qin state in the morning (朝秦) but switched to Chu by ...

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众所周知

zhòng suǒ zhōu zhī

Everyone completely knows

As everyone knows or is widely recognized

Han Dynasty imperial edicts first employed this phrase to establish what everyone (众) completely (周) knows (知) before introducing new policies. Tang D...

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自作聪明

zì zuò cōng míng

Self make cleverness

Too clever for one's own good

Ming Dynasty storytellers gave us this sharp critique of those who create their own version of cleverness (自作聪明), often leading to foolish decisions. ...

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爱毛反裘

ài máo fǎn qiú

Love fur turn inside-out fur coat

Honor one's teachers or humble origins

The Warring States period text 'Lü's Spring and Autumn Annals' introduces this image of loving fur (爱毛) so much that one turns a fur coat inside out (...

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半面之交

bàn miàn zhī jiāo

Half-face acquaintance

Superficial acquaintance without depth

This idiom originated from Tang Dynasty social terminology, first appearing in poetry describing fleeting encounters that created recognition without ...

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心地善良

xīn dì shàn liáng

Heart ground kind good

Fundamentally kind and virtuous character

This phrase originated from Buddhist terminology during the Eastern Han Dynasty introduction of Buddhism to China. It appeared in early sutras transla...

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待人热情

dài rén rè qíng

Treat people warmly

Treat others with genuine warmth and enthusiasm

This phrase originated from Song Dynasty etiquette manuals for merchant households, first providing guidance for commercial hospitality before broaden...

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乐于助人

lè yú zhù rén

Happy to help people

Find genuine pleasure in helping others

This phrase originated from Confucian ethical teachings in the Analects compiled around 500 BCE. The concept appears in Confucius' discussions of diff...

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门当户对

mén dāng hù duì

Door match household align

Match between families of similar social status

Tang Dynasty marriage arrangers first used this architectural metaphor of matching doors (门) and households (户) to describe suitable unions. Family ge...

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不屑一顾

bù xiè yī gù

Not deign one glance

Disdainfully dismiss as beneath consideration

The 'Records of the Grand Historian' captures a haughty Jin Kingdom minister's refusal (不屑) to give even a single glance (一顾) at Wei's alliance propos...

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不言而喻

bù yán ér yù

Not speak yet understood

Self-evident requiring no explanation

Han Dynasty Confucian scholars celebrated this ideal of matters that without (不) being spoken (言) are nevertheless understood (喻). It represented the ...

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不择手段

bú zé shǒu duàn

Not choose methods

Use any means regardless of ethics

Tang Dynasty historians first used this phrase to criticize those who refuse to discriminate (不择) between different means (手段) in pursuing their goals...

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侧目而视

cè mù ér shì

Side eye and look

Look askance with suspicion or disdain

Han Dynasty court etiquette manuals first described this technique of looking (视) with eyes turned sideways (侧目) as a way for lower officials to show ...

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长话短说

cháng huà duǎn shuō

Long story briefly tell

Make a long story short

Yuan Dynasty theater introduced this narrative technique of telling long stories (长话) in brief form (短说). Stage directors used it to help performers c...

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乘人之危

chéng rén zhī wēi

Ride person's danger

Exploit others during their vulnerability

Han Dynasty military treatises first condemned this practice of taking advantage (乘) of others' moments of vulnerability (危). Tang Dynasty Confucian s...

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大公无私

dà gōng wú sī

Great public no private

Completely impartial without self-interest

Han Dynasty administrative manuals first set this standard of great fairness (大公) without self-interest (无私) for imperial officials. Tang Dynasty Neo-...

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得寸进尺

dé cùn jìn chǐ

Gain inch advance foot

Take advantage by demanding increasingly more

This excessive demand idiom describes gaining an inch (寸) then advancing to demand a foot (尺), originating from Han Dynasty negotiation terminology re...

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丢三落四

diū sān là sì

Lose three drop four

Habitually forgetful and disorganized

Ming Dynasty vernacular speech captured this pattern of losing three things (丢三) and dropping four (落四). The non-sequential numbers created a perfect ...

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东张西望

dōng zhāng xī wàng

East stretch west gaze

Look around nervously or suspiciously

Han Dynasty court observers first noted this revealing behavior of looking anxiously east (东张) and west (西望) as a sign of concealed intentions. The ca...

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恶贯满盈

è guàn mǎn yíng

Evil accumulated fully filled

Accumulated evil deeds ripe for punishment

Han Dynasty metaphysical discussions introduced this image of wickedness (恶) accumulating until fully (满) overflowing (盈). Buddhist influence strength...

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飞蛾扑火

fēi é pū huǒ

Flying moth rushes fire

Be irresistibly drawn toward self-destruction

Han Dynasty naturalists first documented this self-destructive phenomenon of moths (飞蛾) rushing toward flames (扑火). Tang Dynasty poets transformed thi...

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负荆请罪

fù jīng qǐng zuì

Carry thorns request punishment

Sincerely admit fault and accept consequences

The 'Records of the Grand Historian' tells how general Lin Xiangru carried thorns (负荆) while requesting punishment (请罪) to demonstrate sincere regret ...

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各抒己见

gè shū jǐ jiàn

Each express own view

Everyone freely express their own opinions

Spring and Autumn period diplomatic protocols established this principle of each person expressing (抒) their own (己) view (见). Warring States strategi...

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拐弯抹角

guǎi wān mò jiǎo

Turn corners wipe angles

Speak or act in deliberately indirect manner

Ming Dynasty urban guides first used this phrase to describe physical paths that turn corners (拐弯) and smooth angles (抹角). Qing Dynasty diplomatic wri...

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害群之马

hài qún zhī mǎ

Harm herd's horse

Individual whose behavior harms entire group

Han Dynasty horse breeders first noted how a single problematic horse (马) could harm (害) an entire herd (群). Tang Dynasty administrators adopted it to...

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好好先生

hǎo hǎo xiān sheng

Good good mister

Person who agrees with everyone to avoid conflict

Qing Dynasty political commentators first used this phrase to criticize excessively agreeable (好好) officials (先生) who prioritized harmony over necessa...

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虎踞龙盘

hǔ jù lóng pán

Tiger crouch dragon coil

Commanding imposing strategic position

Three Kingdoms period geographers first described Nanjing's terrain as having tigers crouching (虎踞) and dragons coiling (龙盘). The image combined earth...

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胡说八道

hú shuō bā dào

Reckless speak eight ways

Talk complete nonsense without any foundation

Ming Dynasty vernacular speech gave us this colorful description of reckless speaking (胡说) scattered in eight directions (八道). Qing Dynasty scholars u...

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讳莫如深

huì mò rú shēn

Avoid discussing as deep

Maintain absolute silence about sensitive matter

Han Dynasty court protocols first established this practice of avoiding discussion (讳莫) as deeply (如深) as possible regarding sensitive imperial matter...

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急功近利

jí gōng jìn lì

Rush achievement near profit

Seek quick success and immediate benefit

Tang Dynasty court critics first used this phrase to condemn officials rushing achievements (急功) for immediate benefits (近利). Song Dynasty Neo-Confuci...

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望穿秋水

wàng chuān qiū shuǐ

Gazing through autumn waters

To eagerly await someone or something

This idiom originates from Tang Dynasty poetry, where 'autumn waters' (秋水) was a literary metaphor for bright, clear eyes. The phrase describes lookin...

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天长地久

tiān cháng dì jiǔ

Heaven is long, earth is lasting

Everlasting; eternal

This idiom derives from Chapter 7 of the Daoist classic 'Tao Te Ching' (道德经) by Laozi: 'Heaven and earth are long-lasting.' The phrase uses the eterna...

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言而有信

yán ér yǒu xìn

Words with trustworthiness

To be true to one's word

This idiom comes from 'The Analects of Confucius' (论语), where the sage emphasized that a person's words (言) must be accompanied by trustworthiness (信)...

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名副其实

míng fù qí shí

Name matches reality

Living up to one's name or reputation

This idiom originates from the Han Dynasty text 'Hou Han Shu' (后汉书), where it described officials whose abilities matched their titles. The phrase com...

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粗心大意

cū xīn dà yì

Rough heart and careless mind

Careless; negligent

This idiom combines 'rough/coarse' (粗) heart (心) with 'big/careless' (大) intention (意) to describe a lack of attention to detail. While both component...

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自以为是

zì yǐ wéi shì

Considering oneself to be right

Self-righteous; opinionated

This idiom appears in the ancient Daoist text 'Zhuangzi' and was used by Confucius to criticize those who considered themselves (自以为) always right (是)...

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心平气和

xīn píng qì hé

Heart calm and breath harmonious

Calm and composed; even-tempered

This idiom combines 'calm heart' (心平) with 'harmonious breath/energy' (气和), reflecting traditional Chinese understanding of emotional and physical bal...

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七嘴八舌

qī zuǐ bā shé

Seven mouths eight tongues

Everyone talking at once; lively discussion

This idiom uses the numbers seven (七) and eight (八), which in Chinese often suggest 'many' or 'various,' combined with mouths (嘴) and tongues (舌) to d...

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光明磊落

guāng míng lěi luò

Bright and open-hearted

Upright and open; above board

This idiom combines 'bright and luminous' (光明) with 'open and upright' (磊落) to describe someone of impeccable moral character. The character 磊 depicts...

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形影不离

xíng yǐng bù lí

Body and shadow never separate

Inseparable; always together

This idiom compares close companions to a person (形, form/body) and their shadow (影) that never (不) separate (离). The phrase originates from ancient C...

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自告奋勇

zì gào fèn yǒng

Self-recommend with vigor and courage

Volunteer bravely; step forward willingly

This idiom describes volunteering (自告) with vigor (奋) and courage (勇), emphasizing initiative and bravery in stepping forward. The phrase combines sel...

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明知故犯

míng zhī gù fàn

Clearly know yet deliberately violate

Knowingly commit a violation

This idiom describes clearly knowing (明知) something is wrong yet deliberately (故) doing it anyway (犯). The phrase emphasizes the moral culpability tha...

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滔滔不绝

tāo tāo bù jué

Surging waves never ceasing

Talk endlessly; speak at great length

This idiom uses the image of surging (滔滔) waves that never (不) cease (绝) to describe continuous, flowing speech. The reduplicated 'taotao' evokes the ...

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无动于衷

wú dòng yú zhōng

No movement in the heart

Unmoved; indifferent

This idiom describes having no (无) movement (动) within (于) one's heart (衷). The character 衷 specifically refers to the innermost feelings. The phrase ...

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默默无闻

mò mò wú wén

Silently without fame

Unknown; working in obscurity

This idiom describes working silently (默默) without (无) anyone hearing of it (闻). It depicts humble labor without recognition or fame. The phrase can d...

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一视同仁

yī shì tóng rén

One view same benevolence

Treat everyone equally without discrimination

This idiom describes viewing (视) everyone with the same (一同) benevolence (仁). The Confucian concept of 'ren' (仁, benevolence) is extended equally to a...

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争论不休

zhēng lùn bù xiū

Arguing without rest

Argue endlessly without resolution

This idiom describes arguing (争论) without (不) stopping (休). The phrase captures the frustration of debates that continue indefinitely without resoluti...

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心甘情愿

xīn gān qíng yuàn

Heart sweet feeling willing

Willingly; without reluctance

This idiom describes a state where the heart (心) finds sweetness (甘) and feelings (情) are willing (愿). It emphasizes genuine, voluntary acceptance wit...

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言过其实

yán guò qí shí

Words exceed the reality

Exaggerate; overstate

This idiom describes words (言) that exceed (过) the actual reality (其实). It originated from 'Records of the Three Kingdoms,' where Zhuge Liang used it ...

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视而不见

shì ér bù jiàn

Look but not see

Turn a blind eye; deliberately ignore

This idiom describes looking (视) but not (不) seeing (见), indicating willful blindness rather than genuine inability to perceive. The phrase originated...

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若无其事

ruò wú qí shì

As if nothing happened

Act as if nothing happened

This idiom describes behaving as if (若) there was no (无) such matter (其事). It depicts maintaining a calm or normal demeanor despite significant events...

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变本加厉

biàn běn jiā lì

Change origin add severity

Get worse; intensify negatively

This idiom describes change (变) from the original (本) state by adding (加) severity (厉). It depicts situations that worsen instead of improving, with p...

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鞠躬尽瘁

jū gōng jìn cuì

Bow and exhaust oneself completely

Devote oneself completely; work until exhausted

This idiom describes bowing (鞠躬) while exhausting oneself completely (尽瘁). It comes from Zhuge Liang's famous memorial 'Chu Shi Biao,' where he pledge...

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心照不宣

xīn zhào bù xuān

Hearts illuminate without declaring

Tacit understanding; unspoken agreement

This idiom describes hearts (心) that illuminate/understand each other (照) without (不) explicit declaration (宣). It captures the special rapport betwee...

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一如既往

yī rú jì wǎng

Same as it has always been

As always; unchanged

This idiom describes being the same (一如) as it has always been (既往). It emphasizes consistency and unchanged behavior or quality over time. The phrase...

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依依不舍

yī yī bù shě

Clinging and unwilling to part

Reluctant to part; lingering attachment

This idiom uses the reduplicated 'yiyi' (依依), meaning clinging or attached, combined with unwilling (不舍) to part. It describes the emotional difficult...

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大惊小怪

dà jīng xiǎo guài

Big surprise small strange

Make a fuss about nothing

This idiom describes making big (大) surprise (惊) over small (小) strange things (怪) - overreacting to minor matters. The phrase criticizes disproportio...

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信口开河

xìn kǒu kāi hé

Trust mouth open river

Talk irresponsibly; make things up

This idiom describes opening (开) a river (河) from one's trusted mouth (信口) - letting words flow freely without verification or thought. The image of a...

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无微不至

wú wēi bù zhì

No detail not attended to

Meticulous; attentive to every detail

This idiom describes care where no (无) detail, however small (微), is not (不) attended to (至). It emphasizes thoroughness that extends to the smallest ...

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痛改前非

tòng gǎi qián fēi

Painfully change previous wrongs

Sincerely repent and reform

This idiom describes painfully (痛) changing (改) one's previous (前) wrongs (非). The inclusion of 'tong' (痛, pain) suggests genuine remorse rather than ...

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与众不同

yǔ zhòng bù tóng

Different from the crowd

Unique; distinctive

This idiom describes being different (不同) from (与) the crowd (众). It can express either positive uniqueness or critical isolation, depending on contex...

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平易近人

píng yì jìn rén

Level and easy to approach

Approachable; easy to get along with

This idiom describes being level/even (平易) and easy to approach (近人). It praises those who, despite status or accomplishment, remain accessible and un...

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目中无人

mù zhōng wú rén

No person in one's eyes

Extremely arrogant; look down on everyone

This idiom describes having no (无) person (人) in one's eyes (目中) - looking through people as if they don't exist. It criticizes extreme arrogance that...

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心心相印

xīn xīn xiāng yìn

Heart and heart mutually seal

Perfect mutual understanding; hearts in harmony

This idiom describes hearts (心心) mutually (相) sealing or imprinting upon (印) each other. It comes from Chan (Zen) Buddhism describing the wordless tra...

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相见恨晚

xiāng jiàn hèn wǎn

Meeting each other regret it was late

Regret not meeting sooner; instant rapport

This idiom describes meeting (相见) and regretting (恨) it was late (晚). It expresses the feeling when connecting with someone special and wishing the re...

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同病相怜

tóng bìng xiāng lián

Same illness mutually sympathize

Sympathize with those sharing similar troubles

This idiom describes those with the same (同) illness or affliction (病) mutually (相) sympathizing (怜). It captures the special understanding between pe...

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言行一致

yán xíng yī zhì

Words and actions consistent

Practice what one preaches

This idiom describes words (言) and actions (行) being consistent (一致). It embodies the Confucian ideal of integrity where speech matches behavior. The ...

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妄自菲薄

wàng zì fěi bó

Wrongly self-deprecate

Underestimate oneself; excessive self-deprecation

This idiom describes wrongly (妄) depreciating (菲薄) oneself (自). It warns against excessive self-deprecation that undervalues one's abilities. The phra...

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赴汤蹈火

fù tāng dǎo huǒ

Go into boiling water step on fire

Go through fire and water; brave any danger

This idiom describes going into (赴) boiling water (汤) and stepping on (蹈) fire (火). It represents willingness to face extreme danger or hardship. The ...

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恻隐之心

cè yǐn zhī xīn

Heart of compassionate concealment

Compassion; empathy for others

This idiom describes the heart (心) of compassion (恻隐). It comes from Mencius, who argued this feeling of pain at others' suffering is innate to all hu...

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沽名钓誉

gū míng diào yù

Fish for fame and angle for reputation

Seek fame through calculated actions

This idiom describes seeking to buy (沽) fame (名) and fishing (钓) for reputation (誉). It criticizes those who pursue recognition through calculated act...

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颐指气使

yí zhǐ qì shǐ

Command with chin gestures and breath

Be domineering and arrogant

This idiom describes commanding others with chin (颐) gestures (指) and breathing (气) to direct (使). It depicts someone so arrogant they give orders thr...

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趾高气扬

zhǐ gāo qì yáng

Toes high, spirits lifted

Strut arrogantly; be conceited

This idiom describes walking with toes (趾) high (高) and spirits (气) raised (扬). It depicts someone strutting with such arrogance that even their toes ...

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妄自尊大

wàng zì zūn dà

Unreasonably consider oneself great

Be conceited; have an inflated ego

This idiom describes unreasonably (妄) considering oneself (自) honorable and great (尊大). It is the opposite of 妄自菲薄, describing excessive self-importan...

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喜怒无常

xǐ nù wú cháng

Joy and anger without constancy

Be moody; have unpredictable emotions

This idiom describes having joy (喜) and anger (怒) without (无) consistency (常). It depicts someone whose emotions are unpredictable and volatile. The p...

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怒不可遏

nù bù kě è

Anger that cannot be suppressed

Be furious beyond control

This idiom describes anger (怒) that cannot (不可) be suppressed (遏). It depicts rage so intense that it overwhelms all attempts at self-control. The phr...

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喜笑颜开

xǐ xiào yán kāi

Happy smile, face opens up

Be beaming with joy

This idiom describes being so happy (喜) that one smiles (笑) and the face (颜) opens up (开). It captures the physical transformation that genuine joy br...

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眉飞色舞

méi fēi sè wǔ

Eyebrows fly, expression dances

Be animated with excitement

This idiom describes eyebrows (眉) flying (飞) and expression (色) dancing (舞). It captures the animated facial expressions of someone excited or enthusi...

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眉开眼笑

méi kāi yǎn xiào

Brows open, eyes smile

Be all smiles; radiate happiness

This idiom describes brows (眉) opening (开) and eyes (眼) smiling (笑). It depicts the full facial expression of genuine happiness where both brows relax...

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愁眉苦脸

chóu méi kǔ liǎn

Worried brows, bitter face

Look worried and unhappy

This idiom describes worried (愁) brows (眉) and a bitter (苦) face (脸). It depicts the physical manifestation of anxiety and unhappiness in facial expre...

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秋毫无犯

qiū háo wú fàn

Not violating even autumn down

Show strict discipline; not take anything

This idiom describes not (无) violating (犯) even the finest autumn hair (秋毫). Autumn down refers to the tiny new hairs animals grow for winter - extrem...

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坦坦荡荡

tǎn tǎn dàng dàng

Open and broad-minded

Live openly with clear conscience

This idiom describes being open (坦坦) and broad (荡荡). The doubled characters emphasize the degree of openness and freedom from anxiety. It depicts some...

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表里如一

biǎo lǐ rú yī

Outside and inside as one

Be consistent inside and out

This idiom describes the outside (表) and inside (里) being as (如) one (一). It depicts consistency between one's public persona and private self, betwee...

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一言既出

yī yán jì chū

Once a word is spoken

A promise once made must be kept

This idiom describes once (既) a word (一言) is spoken (出). It is often paired with 驷马难追 (four horses cannot catch it) to emphasize that spoken words can...

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开诚布公

kāi chéng bù gōng

Open sincerity, spread fairness

Be candid and fair

This idiom describes opening (开) sincerity (诚) and spreading (布) fairness (公). It originated from descriptions of Zhuge Liang's governance style - tra...

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肝胆相照

gān dǎn xiāng zhào

Livers and galls illuminate each other

Share complete trust and loyalty

This idiom describes livers (肝) and galls (胆) illuminating (照) each other (相). In Chinese culture, these organs represent courage and sincerity. The p...

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推心置腹

tuī xīn zhì fù

Push heart, place in belly

Speak from the heart; confide completely

This idiom describes pushing (推) one's heart (心) and placing (置) it in another's belly (腹). It depicts such trust that one metaphorically gives their ...

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志同道合

zhì tóng dào hé

Same aspirations, aligned paths

Share the same goals and values

This idiom describes having the same (同) aspirations (志) and aligned (合) paths (道). It depicts people united by shared goals and values rather than me...

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情投意合

qíng tóu yì hé

Feelings cast, ideas match

Be perfectly compatible; hit it off

This idiom describes feelings (情) being cast together (投) and ideas (意) matching (合). It depicts natural compatibility where both emotions and thought...

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莫逆之交

mò nì zhī jiāo

Friendship without opposition

Be bosom friends

This idiom describes a friendship (交) without (莫) opposition (逆). It comes from Zhuangzi describing friends whose relationship has no discord or confl...

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刎颈之交

wěn jǐng zhī jiāo

Friendship of severed necks

Be sworn friends; absolute loyalty

This idiom describes a friendship (交) of severed necks (刎颈). It comes from the story of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru who reconciled their enmity and became...

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相濡以沫

xiāng rú yǐ mò

Moisten each other with foam

Help each other in adversity

This idiom describes moistening each other (相濡) with foam (以沫). From Zhuangzi's parable of fish in a drying pond who keep each other alive by sharing ...

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相敬如宾

xiāng jìng rú bīn

Respect each other like guests

Treat each other with respect

This idiom describes respecting each other (相敬) like guests (如宾). It comes from Zuozhuan describing an ideal married couple who maintained the courtes...

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举案齐眉

jǔ àn qí méi

Raise tray level with eyebrows

Married couple with great mutual respect

This idiom describes raising (举) a food tray (案) level (齐) with one's eyebrows (眉). It comes from the story of Meng Guang who showed deep respect for ...

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白头偕老

bái tóu xié lǎo

White heads together in old age

Grow old together; lifelong partnership

This idiom describes white (白) heads (头) together (偕) in old age (老). It depicts couples who grow old together, their hair turning white side by side....

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一见钟情

yī jiàn zhōng qíng

One glance, feelings concentrate

Love at first sight

This idiom describes at one (一) glance (见) feelings (情) concentrate (钟). It captures the experience of instant romantic attraction where love strikes ...

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海枯石烂

hǎi kū shí làn

Seas dry, stones rot

Until the end of time; eternal love

This idiom describes seas (海) drying up (枯) and stones (石) rotting (烂). These are impossibilities that would take eternity - seas don't dry and stones...

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难分难舍

nán fēn nán shě

Hard to part, hard to leave

Be inseparable; hate to part

This idiom describes being hard (难) to part (分) and hard (难) to leave (舍). It depicts the pain of separation when attachment is strong. The doubled st...

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恋恋不舍

liàn liàn bù shě

Attached and unwilling to part

Be deeply reluctant to leave

This idiom describes being attached (恋恋) and unwilling (不舍) to leave. Similar to 依依不舍 but with stronger emotional attachment through the character 恋 (...

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魂牵梦萦

hún qiān mèng yíng

Soul pulled, dreams haunted

Yearn day and night

This idiom describes the soul (魂) being pulled (牵) and dreams (梦) being haunted (萦). It depicts longing so intense it occupies both waking and sleepin...

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朝思暮想

zhāo sī mù xiǎng

Think in morning, yearn at night

Think about constantly; yearn for

This idiom describes thinking (思) in the morning (朝) and yearning (想) at night (暮). It depicts constant preoccupation from dawn to dusk. The phrase ca...

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不远千里

bù yuǎn qiān lǐ

Not consider a thousand miles far

Willingly travel far; make great efforts

This idiom describes not (不) considering far (远) a thousand (千) miles (里). From Mencius describing the willingness to travel great distances for impor...

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一见如故

yī jiàn rú gù

Meet like old friends

Instant connection

The idiom 一见如故 (yī jiàn rú gù) originates from the historical text 《左传》 (Zuo Zhuan), specifically during the Spring and Autumn period. It tells the st...

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两肋插刀

liǎng lèi chā dāo

Knives inserted into ribs

Extreme loyalty

Commonly used in classical Chinese, the idiom 两肋插刀 (liǎng lèi chā dāo) originates from a tale involving the famed hero Qin Shubao during the late Sui ...

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情同手足

qíng tóng shǒu zú

Feelings like hands and feet

Sibling-like bond

Commonly used in classical Chinese, the idiom 情同手足 (qíng tóng shǒu zú) vividly describes a relationship as close as that between one's hands (手) and f...

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肝脑涂地

gān nǎo tú dì

Livers and brains smeared

Ultimate sacrifice

The idiom 肝脑涂地 (gān nǎo tú dì) originates from the historical text 'Records of the Grand Historian' (史记) by Sima Qian (司马迁). It describes the aftermat...

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赤子之心

chì zǐ zhī xīn

Heart of a newborn

Pure and sincere heart

The idiom 赤子之心 (chì zǐ zhī xīn) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe a heart that is pure, innocent, and sincere, akin to that...

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天伦之乐

tiān lún zhī lè

Heavenly family joy

Family happiness

The idiom 天伦之乐 (tiān lún zhī lè) originates from the Tang dynasty, specifically from a work by the renowned poet Li Bai (李白). In his prose piece 'Spri...

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骨肉相连

gǔ ròu xiāng lián

Bones and flesh connected

Inseparable family bond

Commonly used in classical Chinese, the idiom 骨肉相连 (gǔ ròu xiāng lián) literally translates to 'bones and flesh are connected.' It evokes the image of...

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手足之情

shǒu zú zhī qíng

Affection of hands and feet

Brotherly affection

The idiom 手足之情 (shǒu zú zhī qíng) is commonly used in classical Chinese to describe the profound bond between siblings, akin to the inseparable relati...

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高风亮节

gāo fēng liàng jié

High character bright integrity

Noble and steadfast

Commonly used in classical Chinese literature, the idiom 高风亮节 (gāo fēng liàng jié) praises individuals with noble character and unwavering integrity. ...

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正人君子

zhèng rén jūn zǐ

Upright gentleman

Moral integrity

The idiom 正人君子 (zhèng rén jūn zǐ) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe a person of upright character and high moral standards....

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德高望重

dé gāo wàng zhòng

High virtue, great respect

Respected elder

The idiom 德高望重 (dé gāo wàng zhòng) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe individuals of high moral character and great respect....

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心胸开阔

xīn xiōng kāi kuò

Broad-minded and open-hearted

Open-mindedness

The idiom 心胸开阔 (xīn xiōng kāi kuò) is commonly used in classical Chinese to describe a person with a broad mind and generous spirit. It is composed of...

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落井下石

luò jǐng xià shí

Throw stones at someone in a well

Exploit misfortune

The idiom 落井下石 (luò jǐng xià shí) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe a situation where someone takes advantage of another's ...

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恩将仇报

ēn jiāng chóu bào

Repay kindness with enmity

Ingratitude and betrayal

The idiom 恩将仇报 (ēn jiāng chóu bào) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe the act of repaying kindness with enmity. While its sp...

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忘恩负义

wàng ēn fù yì

Forget kindness betray loyalty

Ungrateful betrayal

Commonly used in classical Chinese, the idiom 忘恩负义 (wàng ēn fù yì) conveys the idea of forgetting kindness and betraying loyalty. The characters break...

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损人利己

sǔn rén lì jǐ

Harm others benefit self

Selfish gain

The idiom 损人利己 (sǔn rén lì jǐ) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe actions that benefit oneself at the expense of others. Whi...

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以貌取人

yǐ mào qǔ rén

Judge people by appearance

Superficial judgment

The idiom 以貌取人 (yǐ mào qǔ rén) originates from the historical text 《史记》 (Shǐjì) by Sima Qian, specifically from the chapter on Confucius' disciples. T...

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道貌岸然

dào mào àn rán

Solemn and dignified appearance

Hypocritical demeanor

The idiom 道貌岸然 (dào mào àn rán) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe someone who appears solemn and dignified (道貌, dào mào) bu...

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老当益壮

lǎo dāng yì zhuàng

Old should become strong

Vigor despite age

The idiom 老当益壮 (lǎo dāng yì zhuàng) originates from the historical account of Ma Yuan, a renowned general during the Eastern Han Dynasty. As recorded ...

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童叟无欺

tóng sǒu wú qī

No deception of young or old

Honest business practices

The idiom 童叟无欺 (tóng sǒu wú qī) originates from the late Qing dynasty, specifically from the novel 《二十年目睹之怪现状》 by Wu Jianren. It describes a business ...

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尊老爱幼

zūn lǎo ài yòu

Respect the old, love the young

Intergenerational harmony

The idiom 尊老爱幼 (zūn lǎo ài yòu) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to emphasize the moral virtues of respecting the elderly (尊, respect)...

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人尽其才

rén jìn qí cái

Everyone uses their talents

Maximize individual potential

The idiom 人尽其才 (rén jìn qí cái) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to express the idea of utilizing everyone's talents to their fullest ...

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物尽其用

wù jìn qí yòng

Use things to the full

Maximize resource use

Commonly used in classical Chinese, the idiom 物尽其用 (wù jìn qí yòng) emphasizes the principle of maximizing the utility of resources. Although its earl...

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众望所归

zhòng wàng suǒ guī

Public expectation fulfilled

Trusted leadership

The idiom 众望所归 (zhòng wàng suǒ guī) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe a person who has earned the trust and admiration of t...

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有口皆碑

yǒu kǒu jiē bēi

Every mouth is a monument

Universally praised

The idiom 有口皆碑 (yǒu kǒu jiē bēi) is rooted in classical Chinese literature, with its earliest known mention in the Song dynasty text 《五灯会元》 by Shi Puj...

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唇齿相依

chún chǐ xiāng yī

Lips and teeth depend

Mutual reliance

The idiom 唇齿相依 (chún chǐ xiāng yī) originates from the historical context of the Spring and Autumn period, as recorded in the ancient text 《左传》 (Zuǒ Z...

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沉默寡言

chén mò guǎ yán

Silent and few words

Reserved and thoughtful

The idiom 沉默寡言 (chén mò guǎ yán) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe a person who is quiet and speaks very little. It is ofte...

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大义灭亲

dà yì miè qīn

Uphold justice over kin

Justice over family

The idiom 大义灭亲 (dà yì miè qīn) originates from the historical text 《左传》 (Zuo Zhuan), specifically from the story of Shi Que (石碏) during the Spring and...

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公而忘私

gōng ér wàng sī

Publicly forget the private

Selfless dedication

The idiom 公而忘私 (gōng ér wàng sī) originates from the Han Dynasty, specifically from the writings of Ban Gu in the 'Book of Han' (汉书). It tells the sto...

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花好月圆

huā hǎo yuè yuán

Flowers bloom, moon is full

Perfect happiness

The idiom 花好月圆 (huā hǎo yuè yuán) is commonly used in classical Chinese to describe a state of perfect happiness and harmony, often in the context of ...

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患难与共

huàn nàn yǔ gòng

Share difficulties together

Solidarity in hardship

The idiom 患难与共 (huàn nàn yǔ gòng) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe the act of sharing burdens and facing difficulties toge...

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见义勇为

jiàn yì yǒng wéi

See righteousness, act bravely

Courageous moral action

Commonly used in classical Chinese, the idiom 见义勇为 (jiàn yì yǒng wéi) describes the act of seeing (见, jiàn) a righteous deed (义, yì) and courageously ...

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苦口婆心

kǔ kǒu pó xīn

Bitter mouth, old woman's heart

Patient, sincere advice

The idiom 苦口婆心 (kǔ kǒu pó xīn) is commonly used in classical Chinese to describe the act of advising someone with sincere and patient intentions. The ...

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落落大方

luò luò dà fāng

Naturally poised and graceful

Confident and charming

Commonly used in classical Chinese literature, the idiom 落落大方 (luò luò dà fāng) describes a person whose demeanor is naturally poised and graceful. Th...

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满面春风

mǎn miàn chūn fēng

Full face spring breeze

Radiant happiness

Commonly used in classical Chinese literature, the idiom 满面春风 (mǎn miàn chūn fēng) paints a vivid picture of a person whose face is glowing with happi...

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眉目传情

méi mù chuán qíng

Convey feelings through eyes

Non-verbal affection

The idiom 眉目传情 (méi mù chuán qíng) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe the subtle and non-verbal communication of emotions, p...

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宁为玉碎

nìng wéi yù suì

Rather be shattered like jade

Integrity over compromise

The idiom 宁为玉碎 (nìng wéi yù suì) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to express a preference for maintaining one's integrity even at the ...

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破镜重圆

pò jìng chóng yuán

Broken mirror reunited

Reunion after separation

The idiom 破镜重圆 (pò jìng chóng yuán) originates from a poignant story during the late Southern and Northern Dynasties period. As the Chen Dynasty was o...

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倾国倾城

qīng guó qīng chéng

Overwhelm city, overwhelm nation

Unparalleled beauty

The idiom 倾国倾城 (qīng guó qīng chéng) originates from the Han dynasty, specifically from the historical text 《汉书》 (Hàn Shū) by Ban Gu (班固). It tells th...

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三顾茅庐

sān gù máo lú

Three visits to the thatched cottage

Sincere invitation

The idiom 三顾茅庐 (sān gù máo lú) originates from the historical account of Liu Bei's persistent efforts to recruit the brilliant strategist Zhuge Liang ...

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上行下效

shàng xíng xià xiào

Above acts, below imitates

Influence of leadership

The idiom 上行下效 (shàng xíng xià xiào) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe the phenomenon where the actions of those in higher ...

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舍己为人

shě jǐ wèi rén

Sacrifice oneself for others

Selflessness

Commonly used in classical Chinese, the idiom 舍己为人 (shě jǐ wèi rén) emphasizes the noble act of sacrificing one's own interests (舍, give up) for the b...

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唯利是图

wéi lì shì tú

Only profit is sought

Selfish pursuit of gain

The idiom 唯利是图 (wéi lì shì tú) originates from the historical context of the Spring and Autumn period, as recorded in the 'Zuo Zhuan' (左传). During thi...

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文质彬彬

wén zhì bīn bīn

Cultured yet sincere

Balanced character

The idiom 文质彬彬 (wén zhì bīn bīn) originates from the Analects of Confucius (论语, Lúnyǔ), specifically from the chapter 'Yong Ye' (雍也). Confucius discus...

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问心无愧

wèn xīn wú kuì

Ask heart without guilt

Clear conscience

Commonly used in classical Chinese literature, the idiom 问心无愧 (wèn xīn wú kuì) conveys a sense of moral integrity and self-assurance. The phrase liter...

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五体投地

wǔ tǐ tóu dì

Five parts cast to ground

Extreme admiration

The idiom 五体投地 (wǔ tǐ tóu dì) originates from ancient Indian Buddhist practices, where it was considered the highest form of reverence. This ceremonia...

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心直口快

xīn zhí kǒu kuài

Straight heart, fast mouth

Frank and outspoken

Commonly used in classical Chinese, the idiom 心直口快 (xīn zhí kǒu kuài) describes a person who is frank and outspoken, speaking their mind without hesit...

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一尘不染

yī chén bù rǎn

Untouched by a single speck of dust

Moral purity

The idiom 一尘不染 (yī chén bù rǎn) originates from Buddhist texts, particularly from the Tang dynasty. It is derived from a story in the '法苑珠林' (Fǎ Yuàn ...

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一脉相承

yī mài xiāng chéng

One vein mutually inherit

Continuity of tradition

Commonly used in classical Chinese literature, the idiom 一脉相承 (yī mài xiāng chéng) conveys the idea of continuity and inheritance within a lineage or ...

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一毛不拔

yī máo bù bá

Not pluck a single hair

Extremely stingy

The idiom 一毛不拔 (yī máo bù bá) is commonly used in classical Chinese to describe someone who is extremely stingy or unwilling to share even the smalles...

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以身作则

yǐ shēn zuò zé

Use oneself as example

Lead by example

Commonly used in classical Chinese literature, the idiom 以身作则 (yǐ shēn zuò zé) emphasizes the importance of leading by example. The phrase breaks down...

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语重心长

yǔ zhòng xīn cháng

Sincere words earnest wishes

Heartfelt advice

The idiom 语重心长 (yǔ zhòng xīn cháng) originates from the Qing dynasty novel 《海国英雄记·回唐》 by Luo Risheng. In the story, a character reflects on the heartf...

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德才兼备

dé cái jiān bèi

Virtue and talent combined

Moral and capable

The idiom 德才兼备 (dé cái jiān bèi) is commonly used in classical Chinese to describe individuals who possess both high moral character (德, dé) and outst...

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尔虞我诈

ěr yú wǒ zhà

You deceive, I trick

Mutual deceit

The idiom 尔虞我诈 (ěr yú wǒ zhà) originates from the historical text 《左传》 (Zuo Zhuan), specifically during the Spring and Autumn period. It recounts a st...

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肝肠寸断

gān cháng cùn duàn

Liver and intestines cut

Extreme sorrow

The idiom 肝肠寸断 (gān cháng cùn duàn) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to describe a state of extreme sorrow or heartbreak. The phrase l...

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将心比心

jiāng xīn bǐ xīn

Compare heart to heart

Empathy and understanding

The idiom 将心比心 (jiāng xīn bǐ xīn) is commonly used in classical Chinese literature to express the concept of empathy and understanding others by putti...

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