Relationships & Character Chinese Idioms

Learn Chinese idioms about interpersonal relationships, social bonds, moral character, and behavioral patterns. These sayings illuminate human nature and the dynamics of human connections.

57 idioms in this category

各抒己见

gè shū jǐ jiàn

Each express own view

Everyone freely express their own opinions

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负荆请罪

fù jīng qǐng zuì

Carry thorns request punishment

Sincerely admit fault and accept consequences

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飞蛾扑火

fēi é pū huǒ

Flying moth rushes fire

Be irresistibly drawn toward self-destruction

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恶贯满盈

è guàn mǎn yíng

Evil accumulated fully filled

Accumulated evil deeds ripe for punishment

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东张西望

dōng zhāng xī wàng

East stretch west gaze

Look around nervously or suspiciously

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丢三落四

diū sān là sì

Lose three drop four

Habitually forgetful and disorganized

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得寸进尺

dé cùn jìn chǐ

Gain inch advance foot

Take advantage by demanding increasingly more

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大公无私

dà gōng wú sī

Great public no private

Completely impartial without self-interest

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乘人之危

chéng rén zhī wēi

Ride person's danger

Exploit others during their vulnerability

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长话短说

cháng huà duǎn shuō

Long story briefly tell

Make a long story short

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侧目而视

cè mù ér shì

Side eye and look

Look askance with suspicion or disdain

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不择手段

bú zé shǒu duàn

Not choose methods

Use any means regardless of ethics

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不言而喻

bù yán ér yù

Not speak yet understood

Self-evident requiring no explanation

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不屑一顾

bù xiè yī gù

Not deign one glance

Disdainfully dismiss as beneath consideration

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门当户对

mén dāng hù duì

Door match household align

Match between families of similar social status

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乐于助人

lè yú zhù rén

Happy to help people

Find genuine pleasure in helping others

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待人热情

dài rén rè qíng

Treat people warmly

Treat others with genuine warmth and enthusiasm

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心地善良

xīn dì shàn liáng

Heart ground kind good

Fundamentally kind and virtuous character

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半面之交

bàn miàn zhī jiāo

Half-face acquaintance

Superficial acquaintance without depth

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爱毛反裘

ài máo fǎn qiú

Love fur turn inside-out fur coat

Honor one's teachers or humble origins

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自作聪明

zì zuò cōng míng

Self make cleverness

Too clever for one's own good

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众所周知

zhòng suǒ zhōu zhī

Everyone completely knows

As everyone knows or is widely recognized

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朝秦暮楚

zhāo qín mù chǔ

Morning Qin evening Chu

Constantly shifting loyalty for personal gain

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斩钉截铁

zhǎn dīng jié tiě

Chop nail cut iron

Decisively and firmly without hesitation

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总而言之

zǒng ér yán zhī

Altogether and speaking it

To sum up everything discussed

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指桑骂槐

zhǐ sāng mà huái

Point mulberry, curse locust tree

Indirect criticism of real target

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狐狸尾巴

hú li wěi ba

Fox's tail

True nature eventually revealed

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青梅竹马

qīng méi zhú mǎ

Green plums and bamboo horses

Childhood sweethearts or friends

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虚张声势

xū zhāng shēng shì

Empty show of strength

Bluffing with fake display

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过河拆桥

guò hé chāi qiáo

Cross river, dismantle bridge

Abandoning those who helped you

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顶礼膜拜

dǐng lǐ mó bài

Highest reverence and worship

Extreme adoration or worship

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难兄难弟

nán xiōng nán dì

Difficult elder and younger brothers

Companions united through shared hardship

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不卑不亢

bù bēi bù kàng

Neither humble nor proud

Maintain perfect dignified composure

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高山流水

gāo shān liú shuǐ

High mountain flowing water

Perfect artistic understanding between friends

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坐怀不乱

zuò huái bù luàn

Sit in lap not disorderly

Maintain perfect integrity despite temptation

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敬业乐群

jìng yè lè qún

Respect work enjoy community

Balance excellence with social harmony

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口是心非

kǒu shì xīn fēi

Mouth yes heart no

Words differ from thoughts

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言不由衷

yán bù yóu zhōng

Words not from heart

Speak without meaning it

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一诺千金

yī nuò qiān jīn

One promise thousand gold

Keep promises faithfully

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饮水思源

yǐn shuǐ sī yuán

Drink water think source

Remember your roots

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完璧归赵

wán bì guī zhào

Return jade to Zhao complete

Return something perfect

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倾盖如故

qīng gài rú gù

Tilt hat like old friends

Instant friendship

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雪中送炭

xuě zhōng sòng tàn

Send coal in snow

Help in time of need

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守正不阿

shǒu zhèng bù ē

Keep right no flattery

Keep integrity without compromise

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众志成城

zhòng zhì chéng chéng

Many wills make wall

Unity creates strength

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守口如瓶

shǒu kǒu rú píng

Guard mouth like bottle

Keep secrets well

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一言九鼎

yī yán jiǔ dǐng

Words heavy as nine cauldrons

Words carry great weight

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爱屋及乌

ài wū jí wū

Love house and its crow

Love extends to all connections

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守望相助

shǒu wàng xiāng zhù

Watch and help each other

Help and support each other

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狐假虎威

hú jiǎ hǔ wēi

Fox uses tiger's power

Borrow authority to intimidate

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春风化雨

chūn fēng huà yǔ

Spring wind becomes rain

Gentle, nurturing influence

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风雨同舟

fēng yǔ tóng zhōu

Share boat in wind and rain

Share hardships together

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同舟共济

tóng zhōu gòng jì

Cross river in same boat

Face challenges together

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以和为贵

yǐ hé wéi guì

Value harmony as precious

Value harmony above all

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海纳百川

hǎi nà bǎi chuān

Sea accepts hundred rivers

Accept all with open mind

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以心换心

yǐ xīn huàn xīn

Exchange heart for heart

Treat others as yourself

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一模一样

yī mú yī yàng

One mold one appearance

Exactly identical

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