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相敬如宾(相敬如賓)

xiāng jìng rú bīnRelationships & Character

相敬如宾 (xiāng jìng rú bīn) literally meansrespect each other like guestsand expressestreat each other with respect”.This idiom is used when describing situations involving relationships & character.

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Pronunciation: xiāng jìng rú bīn Literal meaning: Respect each other like guests

Origin & Usage

This idiom describes respecting each other (相敬) like guests (如宾). It comes from Zuozhuan describing an ideal married couple who maintained the courtesy usually reserved for guests. The phrase depicts marriages where respect never fades into familiarity. Modern usage describes relationships, especially marriages, characterized by enduring mutual respect and courtesy.

When to Use

Situation: Their long marriage was built on mutual respect.


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Frequently Asked Questions

What does 相敬如宾 mean in English?

相敬如宾 (xiāng jìng rú bīn) literally translates toRespect each other like guestsand is used to expressTreat each other with respect”. This Chinese idiom belongs to theRelationships & Character category..

When is 相敬如宾 used?

Situation: Their long marriage was built on mutual respect.

What is the pinyin for 相敬如宾?

The pinyin pronunciation for 相敬如宾 isxiāng jìng rú bīn”.

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