尔虞我诈
尔虞我诈 (ěr yú wǒ zhà) literally means “you deceive, i trick” and expresses “mutual deceit”. This idiom is used when describing situations involving relationships and character.
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Mutual deceit
Pronunciation: ěr yú wǒ zhà Literal meaning: You deceive, I trick
Origin & Usage
The Zuo Zhuan records the terms agreed when Chu's siege of Song was lifted: 我无尔诈,尔无我虞 — I will not deceive you, you will not deceive me. The idiom is built out of that pledge with the negatives stripped away, so a promise of mutual honesty has become the name for mutual bad faith. Commercial and political relations conducted entirely in suspicion — and the origin is worth knowing, since the phrase began as the exact opposite of what it now means.
Examples
English: "In the world of politics, it often feels like everyone is engaged in mutual deception."
Chinese: 在政治界,尔虞我诈的现象屡见不鲜。
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Frequently Asked Questions
What does 尔虞我诈 mean in English?
尔虞我诈 (ěr yú wǒ zhà) literally translates to “You deceive, I trick” and is used to express “Mutual deceit”. This Chinese idiom belongs to the Relationships & Character category.
When is 尔虞我诈 used?
Situation: In the world of politics, it often feels like everyone is engaged in mutual deception.
What is the pinyin for 尔虞我诈?
The pinyin pronunciation for 尔虞我诈 is “ěr yú wǒ zhà”.