Chinese New Year

10 Chinese Idioms to Impress Your In-Laws at Chinese New Year

What to say to Chinese in-laws during CNY? These sophisticated idioms help you make a great impression and show cultural respect.

Meeting your in-laws during Chinese New Year and wondering what to say? These carefully selected idioms will help you make an excellent impression. They convey respect, wisdom, and cultural sophistication - showing your in-laws that you value their family and traditions.

1

以和为贵

yǐ hé wéi guì

Value harmony above all

Literal meaning: Value harmony as precious

This idiom, promoting harmony (和) as precious (贵), traces back to the Zhou Dynasty classic 'Guoyu,' reflecting early Chinese diplomatic philosophy. The concept gained renewed importance during the Tang Dynasty's cosmopolitan empire, where it guided both domestic governance and international relation...

Example

Instead of arguing, they found a compromise that benefited everyone

他们没有争吵,而是找到了一个对大家都有利的折中方案

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2

虚怀若谷

xū huái ruò gǔ

Stay humble and open

Literal meaning: Empty heart like valley

Derived from Daoist philosophy, this phrase advocates maintaining an empty (虚) heart/mind (怀) like (若) a valley (谷). The valley metaphor was particularly significant in Daoist thought - like a valley that receives all waters without preference, one should remain open to all ideas without prejudice. ...

Example

The professor welcomed new ideas from his students

教授欢迎学生们提出新的想法

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3

饮水思源

yǐn shuǐ sī yuán

Remember your roots

Literal meaning: Drink water think source

This reflection on gratitude emerged during the Tang Dynasty, using the everyday act of drinking (饮) water (水) to remind one to think (思) of its source (源). The idiom gained prominence through Buddhist texts that emphasized mindful appreciation of life's foundations. It was particularly meaningful i...

Example

After achieving success, she created a scholarship at her old school

在成功之后,她在母校设立了奖学金

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4

入乡随俗

rù xiāng suí sú

Follow local customs

Literal meaning: Enter village follow customs

Dating back to the Warring States period, this idiom advises those who enter (入) a village (乡) to follow (随) local customs (俗). Historical accounts tell of diplomatic missions that succeeded or failed based on their adherence to this principle. The concept gained particular significance during the T...

Example

She adapted to local customs when working abroad

她在国外工作时入乡随俗

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5

一诺千金

yī nuò qiān jīn

Keep promises faithfully

Literal meaning: One promise thousand gold

Emerging from the Spring and Autumn period, this idiom equates one (一) promise (诺) with a thousand in gold (千金). It gained prominence through the story of Ji Zha, who honored a posthumous promise despite great personal cost. The concept became central to merchant culture during the Tang Dynasty, whe...

Example

Despite better offers, she honored her original commitment to the client

尽管有更好的机会,她仍然信守对客户的承诺

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6

金石良言

jīn shí liáng yán

Valuable, lasting advice

Literal meaning: Gold and stone good words

Originating in early Chinese metallurgy, this idiom equates valuable advice to gold (金) and stone (石) - materials known for their durability and value. The term good words (良言) gained special significance during the Spring and Autumn period (771-476 BCE) when adviser roles became crucial in statecra...

Example

Her mentor's guidance proved invaluable throughout her career

她导师的指导在她的职业生涯中证明是无价的

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7

移樽就教

yí zūn jiù jiào

Humbly seek guidance

Literal meaning: Move wine jar seek teaching

This humble gesture of moving (移) one's wine jar (樽) to seek (就) teaching (教) comes from a Tang Dynasty story where the young Li Bai showed his respect for the hermit-scholar Du Fu by bringing wine to learn from him. The act of bringing one's own wine represented both humility and sincerity in seeki...

Example

The CEO personally visited experts to learn about new technologies

首席执行官亲自拜访专家学习新技术

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8

见贤思齐

jiàn xián sī qí

Learn from the worthy

Literal meaning: See worthy wish equal

Derived from Confucius's Analects, this phrase encourages people who see (见) the worthy (贤) to wish (思) to equal (齐) them. It embodied the Confucian ideal of self-improvement through positive example. During the Han Dynasty, it became a cornerstone of educational philosophy, promoting active emulati...

Example

Reading about innovative leaders motivated her to enhance her skills

阅读创新领袖的事迹激励她提升自己的技能

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9

敬业乐群

jìng yè lè qún

Balance excellence with social harmony

Literal meaning: Respect work enjoy community

This balanced approach advocates respecting (敬) one's profession (业) while enjoying (乐) community (群), first appearing in Confucian educational texts during the Han Dynasty. It emerged from Confucius's teaching that ideal scholars should be both diligent in their studies and harmonious in relationsh...

Example

The new employee demonstrated dedication to her role while building strong team relationships

新员工表现出对工作的敬业精神,同时与团队建立了良好的关系

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10

心安理得

xīn ān lǐ dé

Feel at ease with a clear conscience

Literal meaning: Heart at peace, reason satisfied

This idiom describes the heart (心) being at peace (安) because reason (理) is satisfied (得). It describes the inner tranquility that comes from knowing one has acted correctly. The phrase connects moral behavior with psychological well-being. Modern usage describes the peace of mind that follows ethic...

Example

After returning the lost wallet, he felt completely at ease.

归还了丢失的钱包后,他心安理得。

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